By God’s grace, wisdom and good ideas, I’ve developed two strategies for dealing with crowded swimming pools, buses and such:
1) Consider it an exercise in forgiveness.
2) Look for people who need help, e.g. the elderly; moms carrying babies; and give them a seat, or otherwise help.
These strategies put me into a proactive mode instead of a reactive mode, and make the whole experience more pleasant.
Another way to help is to watch the people trying to get off the bus; if the driver closes the door too soon, help them yell, “还有人要下！开门！”
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